Over the last few years, medias have been talking about a Marriage Strike which was followed by a Sex Strike. What is this all about?
First let look at some statistics: Marriage Rates (from the University of Maryland)
Marriage Rates
The first thing you’ll notice is that the marriage rate passed from 80 to 50 marriages per 1000 unmarried women 15+ between 1970 and 2000. I heard that it was getting a much more serious issue in the recent years but I don’t have any statistics.
So what is causing this? Since the feminism movement, lots of men are struggling to find their place in relationships. Women have become masculine and men have lost their masculinity. The natural polarity has been removed from relationships. As a result, people experience drama instead of passion. Women tell men they’re not good enough. Medias tell men it’s their fault. Gurus tell men to fix themselves. People run around trying to fix themselves without realizing what’s really happening.
Over the years, men and women have lost touch with their authentic self in the Western world. The workplace became more competitive and fast-paced. Women became more masculine. Religions have been dropped. People became more in their heads and less connected to their hearts. People have based their lives on production and accomplishment and forgot about well-being and authenticity. These are very real changes but you have to go outside the country in order to see the difference. Over the last few years, lots of people woke up to spirituality and started to see what’s really happening.
Why would a man want to get married when 50% of marriages end up in divorce? Especially when he faces all kind of drama and there isn’t much attraction and polarity in the relationship. 74% of people in my mailing list believe there is something missing in how men and women relate in the Western world. This doesn’t encourage people to marry.
Here are some statistics about divorces around the world.
Divorce Rates
The difference between USA and Mexico is shocking: 4.95 vs 0.33 divorces per 1000 habitants! That’s 15 times more divorces than the adjacent country. No wonder why white Americans fear to become a minority by 2040 due to Hispanic birth rate. These statistics clearly show the geographical delimitations of what I call the Western world having relationship problems: United States, United Kingdon, Denmark, New Zealand, Australia and Canada. Somehow Russia and Puerto Rico are also on the list of high divorces but probably for other reasons
Another aspect I have been talking about is that, in my experience, relationships with some women from foreign countries who didn’t do any kind of self-development provide a better relationship experience than with some of the most spiritually evolved women in Canada who do a lot of self-development. I identified 3 key points that made all the difference and left the article with two questions.
Women’s Attractiveness
After 23 feedback, I still don’t have a clear answer to these two questions, but if we want to bridge the gap between men and women, we’ll have to answer these two questions properly:
1. Why do so many Western women keep their inner critic voice running instead of ?accepting and embracing life as it is?
2. Why are Western women so afraid of letting go of the ground and flowing in their femininity?
I shared these questions with several women but only heard back from one so far. I just received the books The Way of the Superior Man and The Power of Now which may contain some answers so I’ll start reading them.
The solution is to reconnect with your authentic self and to connect with authentic people. However, if we look at men who had the most success uncovering their purity and attracting women, there’s one who had women all over him in England. He got bored of them and moved to South America. I’m also moving to South America within a few months. The other men who have a lot of success with women seem to travel a lot.
If you’re not living in one of the countries I listed, it makes it much easier for you. Otherwise, it’s one thing to get the best experiences you can from women around. It’s another thing to experience strong chemistry with women abroad. It’s yet another thing to experience that strong chemistry back to your local community. You have to ask yourself which level you are aiming at.
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#1 by Ish on November 1, 2010 - 4:36 pm
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Awesome article.. things are pretty much in Australia and New Zealand and for the same reasons as the US. ๐
#2 by Gary on November 2, 2010 - 12:33 am
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Thanks for the message, I have been saying for ten years if the s___t hits
the fan which is coming to a theater near you; I will move to Chile (shhh!!)
wine, beef, sexy woman, mountains, oceans, natural resources, descent GNP
and trout, yes there are earthquakes, juntas and machismo, but it would be
worth having an attractive “brown-eyed women” that truly appreciate a man!
Hey, I am not the only one that thinks so – I know Van the Man Morrison
would think so.
#3 by Josip on November 2, 2010 - 9:50 am
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Hey Man,
The Power of Now will definitely bring some light and perspective into these kinds of questions. Tolle visited Germany last week, so I didn’t let that pass me by..
Anyways, do you still have contact to Marcus?
#4 by Etienne Charland on November 2, 2010 - 1:37 pm
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I made a mistake, I don’t know how to count anymore. 4.95 / 0.33 doesn’t give 9. The divorce rate in America is *15* times higher than in Mexico, and twice higher than in Canada.
I fixed the article.
#5 by Steve on January 8, 2011 - 12:09 pm
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In 2011, for an individual of high worth or of high income, there is NO REASON TO GET MARRIED ! Marriage will lead to divorce 50% plus of the time. The higher earner/worth individual could be ruined or best case lose a portion of their estate. Family courts are setup to protect the “poorer” spouse, and brutally punish the breadwinner.
Specifically, the following will occur:
1) In equitable distribution states, 50%-80% of ALL the assets brought into and acquired during the marriage, could be given to the “poorer” spouse. Bye bye house(s), cars, cash, 401k, ect….
2) Alimony – This is money paid to the poorer spouse in order to “maintain the lifestyle” of the poorer spouse. These payments can be 30-50% of the breadwinner’s gross earnings, and last A LIFETIME as seem in US states like MA. This is a form of modern day slavery, but many people do not know about such horrific laws. In addition, spouses of 2nd marriages in some cases, have to forfeit their earnings and assets to the ex spouse to maintain their lifestyle (in MA) !
3) Child Support – If you made the HUGE mistake of having 1 or more children with your ex-spouse, you will pay a 30-40% or more of your gross income. Most of this money is “free spending” money for the ex spouse, and little goes to the child.
4) Legal fees – Divorce lawyers are trained for conflict. The more a divorcing couple fights and goes to court, the more money spent on legal fees. HUGE amount of money can be lost to the deep pockets of lawyers.
ALL HIGH EARNERS AND THOSE OF HIGH NET WORTH MUST STAY AWAY FROM MARRIAGE, OR ELSE BE FACED WITH DIRE FINANCIAL CONSEQUENCES. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED !
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