I haven’t given any updates in a while. I had been traveling two weeks in the north of Peru then moved to Medellin in Colombia. I’ll be living here 2 months with Rion Freeberg. We’ll have a blast ๐Ÿ™‚ Been busy catching up on work and setting up the apartment. We’ve got 4 bathrooms for 2 people!

I wanted to write this article since a while so here it is. Self-transformation has very little to do with time. It has everything to do with the clarity, focus and leverage you have. That’s what makes the difference between someone getting results in two weeks and someone not seeing results after 3 years. Let’s explore each of these 3 aspects.

The clarity is the precision of what you do. It is about having a proper understanding of yourself and others, including the way your emotional and energetic systems work. It is about the clarity of your understanding, the clarity of your mind and the clarity of your vision. The opposite would be to have a fuzzy vision, to live in a fog and having no clue where you are heading.

The focus is how you direct your mind to the right things and deal with the roots of issues instead of simply dealing with the symptoms. Clarity allows you to see where the real issues are. Focus allows you to deal directly with these issues and to keep moving forward. The opposite of this would be to be unfocused and to spread your time and energy all over the place.

Leverage is about seeking everything that can help you achieve your goals. Being fully committed to your self-transformation is a huge leverage point. Getting coaching or attending live events also brings leverage. Surrounding yourself with people who have the qualities you seek brings leverage. Using Tibetan healing bowls or healing stones can also bring leverage. Taking 6 months or a year to travel to a different country can also bring huge leverage. The opposite of this would be to try to do everything on your own without help, like many feminists do.

Since self-transformation has little to do with time, self-transformation coaching cannot be valued by the hour. It can only be valued by its clarity, focus and leverage. The truth is, you could hire a coach at $80/h and see some improvement. Or, you could hire a coach at $400/h and get 30 times the results. If you do the math, you would have to spend $2400 on the first coach to *maybe* get similar results. Or, you could hire a coach at $4000/h and get 30 times additional results. What I’m trying to say is that… transformation per hour is simply a false concept. I can solve in an hour problems that most psychologists can’t solve in a year.

When you look at your self-transformation path so far, how would you rate yourself on these 3 aspects on a scale of 1 to 10? Be honest. How much clarity do you have? How much focus do you have? How much leverage do you have? I can guarantee you that the results you see are proportional to these.

I recently started offering free strategy sessions to help people get more clarity and focus about what they want, what’s holding them back and what would help them the most out of my services or out of everything out there in the community. I’m only doing this to a select few people who are fully committed to their self-transformation. If you are interested in this, you can sign up for a free strategy session here.

P.S. I’ve been busy catching up on work lately. If you applied for a strategy session and I haven’t got back to you yet, you should hear from me soon. Based on the volume of requests, it may take some time before scheduling your strategy session.

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