Even if I contradict what 99.7% of people say, I tell you this.

It doesn’t matter what you do, it doesn’t matter what happens and expressing yourself is superficial in terms of success with women.


Let me explain.

It doesn’t matter so much what happens, what matters is how you react to what happens. For example, you might approach a group of girls in a bar who agressively ignore you. You don’t give a shit, have a slight laugh, forget about it and talk to some other girls right next. Everybody around saw how untainable you are and many girls are already attracted to you before you even talk to them.

It doesn’t matter so much what you do, what matters is why you do it. If the action comes from a negative feeling or a scarcity mindset, it usually brings negative results. If the action comes from a positive feeling or an abundance mindset, it usually breings positive results. For example, if you go to the mall because you have something to buy and you like casually talking with people around you, or because you want to find a girlfriend, you won’t have the same results. If you don’t lack girls, you have no reason to go out of your way to meet new people.

Expressing yourself is superficial yet most people focus on this. But listening to others is harder. Listening to how you feel is even harder. Harnessing the way you feel is even harder. And listening to how other people feel is even harer. The later brings much more results.

Interesting mind shift.

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